Debora, I received an e-mail from you as well, though it was not full of flames. You actually apologized for any offense you may have caused me, which I thought was a good step to take.
Here is an idea:
1) Perhaps consider editing out the anatomical reference in your first post to this thread - that is what I found offensive and uncalled for.
2) Perhaps reconsider your position on cblaisd and apologize - he is one of the nicest, most helpful and upstanding contributors to these boards.
Just a friendly suggestion, of course.