Originally Posted by
Scots_Al
Interesting how different people in different places interpret things. I (and I suspect most people this side of the pond) would find a waiter clearing plates away whilst someone at the table is still eating to be incredibly rude. Indeed, as a relatively slow eater, I still can't get used to this practice when I visit the USA - it puts so much pressure on you to eat up and get out (that and bringing the bill unbidden, often without even asking about dessert or coffee).
Quite.
I can't ever recall wait-staff attempting to remove plates from my fellow diners whilst others were still eating and if they did I'd politely ask them to stay away until we're ready.
Good wait-staff will know instinctively when it's the right moment and in any case most always ask if everyone has finished before doing so.