I'm SPG gold. Staying for 7 nights on award stay. Not sure what else might help. Thanks

If you have enough Starpoints, I would call and try to arrange the better view room with additional Starpoints. IMO as a Gold (you'll have plenty of Plats ahead of you waiting for an upgrade), you may only receive what you reserve and since this is your honeymoon, the old adage of reserve what you want should be followed instead of hoping for an upgrade.
Congrats on the upcoming marriage.