welcome to Flyertalk.
in light of the multiple threads you have started, please take some time to read the stickies about what topics do and do not belong in the information desk, and where to find information. Of the six threads you've started, none are appropriate for the Miles & Points Information Desk.
http://www.flyertalk.com/forum/infor...forum-684.html
as for this latest question, at most airports, you can't just guest anyone in flying any flight on any airline. There are separate terminals, and some require guests to be flying on the airline at issue. You'll just have to spend the 4 minutes to look up what lounges are in the terminal you're flying from in order to mooch off someone else's lounge access.
But there is a calendar on Flyertalk which seems close to what youre asking for:
http://www.flyertalk.com/forum/lounge_connect.php