I grew up in Wilton, CT (right next to Darien). I definately recommend the LGA route. You can catch the M60 to 125th. Then catch a Metro-North train right into Darien.
You might also consider Connecticut Limosine which has service into Norwalk (and Stamford?) cost is about $25
Have a good trip.
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I wish I were 1,000 miles away