A word about the character breakfast... They now require a deposit IF you are able to get a reservations to prevent horders. The reservations were being sold on the internet they are so hard to come by. There was a site that had volunteers that would call every day, collect reservations & then give them out to people that frequented the site. There was such an uproar that it even made the local papers.
DON'T mention it to your daughter until you can actually get the reservation. They are that hard to get. So many people have told their little girls that they were going to have breakfast with the princess and later had to tell them no. That's how the selling reservations thing started.
Disney has also started a new princess breakfast in the Norway pavillion in EPCOT. Those are a little easier to get, but also not as desirable because they aren't in the castle.
An excellent site for information & tips is also
http://www.wdwinfo.com/ Check out their message boards.. there's a wealth of knowledge and information out there.
Remember - half the fun is planning the trip

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Mary