Originally Posted by
Flyingboy200
Having gone to the locker room to change from my gym kit to my swimmers headed through and went into the steam room, where I was confronted by 2 young males who were completely naked and stared atme, making me feel quite uncomfortable...
...I was also upset the other users found it necessary to get a member of staff rather than just explaining the rules and requesting me to take my swimmers off.
Your post is quite informative, but I think you may be off about being upset that they asked a staff member to explain the rules to you. That was the correct move for them.
Consider the alternative.
Two nude dudes that made you uncomfortable by staring at you (your words) and may or may not speak your language and have no authority at the spa proceed to request in basic english and hand gestures that you take your trunks off because it's "the rules."
Response 1: You ask if nude dudes are serious (as you did when informed by the staff member) and then proceed to inform a staff member that a couple of hooligans are trying to trick you into getting naked.
Response 2: You ask if nude dudes are serious (as you did when informed by the staff member.) They say "Ja." You believe them and sheepishly comply like the Coco photo shoot scene in Fame.
These 2 scenarios still likely end up with you being upset.
I agree that the hotel or spa should explain this to guests. Easy way to minimize confusion and avoid drama.