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I can understand you even if I did not have this problem.
I lived in Italy but moved to Germany for work.
Distance is about 1.5hr by plane.
I go home every two months now, but before every month.
Every month was not feasible (not from the cost point of view); every month means to stay "at home" only a weekend (maybe Fri-Mon) and then fly back, so then I decided to fly back once every two months but for a longer period...

Ah, my family (wife) is now in Germany, so I fly back to Italy to visit parents.