Check seatguru.com and you'll find the specific seats that are deemed as "undesirable" most of them don't really matter to me. Recline does, but some of them are deemed as such for misaligned windows, which I couldn't care less about. I was being totally serious with the 59 D/G thing. The lav is far enough away that people will merely walk by as opposed to congregate. Babies should be towards the front of cabin, screaming toddlers can be anywhere though

, but this way you should both be able to flip up the middle arm rests and get 3 seats for the price of two and you can both be more comfortable.