To be fair, I think your expectations at StR SIN are unreasonable. Just because you are celebrating an anniversary, honeymoon, etc., I don't think it entitled you to anything further. A card, in and of itself, is more than sufficient. It just seems that people are always afflicted by the disease of more- I want more, more, more. More of an upgrade, more of an amenity, more ...-kissing. I simply don't see where it is justified.