Originally Posted by
LondonElite
There is only one solution here. Do the chivalrous thing and give the F seat to your wife. The chance that you are going to get adjoining J seats at this point is probably pretty low anyways. This way you come out the winner. Trust me.
That's the only way!! You almost certainly have lost your previous seat by now. With OHs the wins are often difficult so follow LondonElite's advice. Incidentally, my OH would never refuse F even if I remain in CW!