This totally helps and I am feeling a lot better about things now. I was getting a bit overwhelmed with all the choices and the four of you have helped me put it all in a manageable package without feeling like I've missed something. The ramen tip was also perfect. I would have wasted time on the Tokyo Metro building and other not-so-worth-it sights without you, which was exactly the advice I wanted.
We are off tomorrow night for a few days in Beijing and then onto Kyoto on Sunday. I have to say, the Japan board is one of the friendliest on FT with so many great members. I am so much more excited and prepared now, thanks to you all.