To be honest, I didn't think for one minute saying I didn't want to be woken up for breakfast meant I didn't want any, perhaps a bit naive of me, but, the flight attendant should have just said sorry didn't realise you wanted breakfast, a breakdown in communication. In the end with only 40 mins to land I settled on a pot of tea and biscuits. If this had been my only complaint on the flight it would have been fine, but, having to ask for a drink, not being able to board at heathrow direct to First cabin, etc. I am glad I didn't pay full price for this seat.

Thanks everyone for your thoughts