Join Date: May 2004
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In my experience from a few visits. If you sit at the dining tables (indicating you want to eat) you will be approached by staff and they will go back and forth in intervals to top up your drinks and offer your more food.
Once you move to or settle in the TV / Lounge chair area they will not bother you much and you will have to call them over to get things. I can understand that an occasional check on a guest would not be too much of an effort, but at the same token I have also heard some people telling staff that they do not want to be disturbed and will come to them if they need something.
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