Still can't identify the point of this rambling missive. I have elite traveller status because I spend a lot of time and money traveling. This is how I earn my living and provide for my family. Airlines recognize my loyalty and spend by granting a few perks to ease the discomfort and encourage me to do business with them. None of this has anything to do with arrogance or condescension towards my fellow passengers.

Perhaps the OP might understand this better if he/she earned and maintained elite status by sacrificing the money, time, and discomfort most others do to earn it.