I've certainly changed holiday plans as a result of the security restrictions. Any destination that requires a connection through the US is a no-no and rather than flying via Heathrow I now go via Amsterdam
I don't mind molestation (at my age I consider it a benefit) nor the nude-o-scope (if anyone is sad enough to want to look at my Devil's bagpipes, that's their problem) but it's the relentless queuing and the pettiness of some of the rules.