OP hasn't said if he brought up in this case dealing with AA, but if so, and if I was the AA rep and saw someone trying to brag about their "Ivy League background" in a case like this (especially where it has no relevance), my first thought would "you went to an Ivy League school yet you weren't smart enough to know not to give your gf your account info (Both CC and FF account) or 2) at least change the information when the relationship went south?"