Originally Posted by
Often1
It all seems nice until some other kid sees OP's kid eating a sundae or a steak or whatever it is and asks how come he's not special too.
I'm fine with an individual crew member taking on the burden if they want to, but there is no particular reason they should.
I think this is the issue. If I'm sitting in Y internationally, and the person beside me suddenly receives a C meal and glass of wine, I think I would wonder too.