You dont need a spouse or family member to be on the same page to do that type of volume. Hell, it is probably easier if you are single
But if the GF or wife always has negative things to say about it ...
I had a GF that was put off by the money cycling. Just the idea, she wasn't involved at all. Even the fat, easy sign up bonuses were beneath her. So I got an Asian girlfriend who loves that I can travel all over Asia with no trouble.