I've been to Berlin many times and my partner is actually originally from Berlin.
Berlin is not the place for swanky upscale bars, IME. Just popped the question to him and he confirmed.
If anything, the gay crowd in Berlin is mostly the opposite.
There are a lot of fancy and expensive bars in Berlin, they will all be gay friendly, as anything in Berlin. Harry's New york in Ku'dam is pretty nice. Also "Catwalk bar".(not gay)
The bar at the Axel Hotel (gay) may fit what you are looking for. But on gay pride weekend, it might get too busy.
Last edited by carlosdca; Jun 16, 2014 at 8:56 am