Originally Posted by
lg10
The situation is that my son is allergic to corn and soy, which means that ...
And I'll stop you right there. At that point, your son's chocolate milk is not a beverage for a child. It's a medically-necessary liquid, at which point a different set of rules applies:
http://www.tsa.gov/traveler-informat...essary-liquids
According to that site, such liquids in excess of the 100ml limit may necessitate additional screening, which might include a patdown.
Of course, it is regrettable that some airports perform the patdown and others do not, and there's no way for an ordinary passenger to know what the proper expectation should be.