Depending how big your breast are . TSA have some times to push them and lift them to feel under. How great is that? Not very good to me.
I dont like any stranger male or female to my personal things just to fly. A NORMAL pat down no problem with me at all. But anything that is "private" Yes I do I think of it as molestation to me. And if it is kids grandkids and so on that is discussting rude disrespectful and you name it. That is really a paronia that "people" thinks that need to be done. Each to their own. But that is me and my family.