Originally Posted by
OverThereTooMuch
I'm a normal person. I do not obsess over my every dining decision. I want decent food & decent service. That's what a restaurant is supposed to provide. I don't care about the presentation, or the much more ambiguous "dining experience".
How do YOU find it?
Starting from the premise that "food is fuel" helps. As long as it makes the engine run smoothly then anything else is a bonus. I do not travel for food.
I avoid chains and focus on the local cuisine. I am a big fan of street food. I prefer restaurants that are mid-sized and look like they've been there for a while. I look for places that are busy but not crowded. I will not wait hours in line just to dine at an eatery with a good reputation among the foodies and Trip Advisor crowd.
If I check Trip Advisor or Yelp it is usually after I visit a place for the first time and measure my experience against what everyone else has to say. I don't care to have my expectations set by anonymous posts on the Internet. I have found places that are gems that no else cares for and highly-rated spots to which I wouldn't return. YMMV.