Hello i am an expat from kuwait living in the netherlands
my wife is usualy with me on most of my flights so am looking for a program where we could maybe pool miles togather

(1) What is your home airport? amsterdam schipol
(2) What types of fares do you usually buy ? economy
(3) How many miles do you usually fly each year? me around 60k, my wife around 40k
(4) Do you have any kind of status at present? What is it? joined turkish program 2 weeks ago now i have 13k miles
(5) What is most important to you in a FFP? upgrade rewards (specificaly for my once a year trip to the US), and ticket rewards
(6) Which routes do you fly most often (europe to kuwait once a month, within europe once a month, europe to USA once a year)
(7) Preferred Airlines. turkish since its very cheap
(8) Do you travel for work or pleasure? mostly pleasure but a few buisness trips a year


i need help to know which star alliance program should i join for best rewards and fastest status and a good family pooling option.