Finally! A GOOD News!!

Well, after speaking with my boss (who casually knows that I canceled my vacation), I am now able to take my vacation over the thanksgiving holiday week!! ^

My mom's response? She was not complaining/objecting this new schedule in November!!! Yeay!

Initially we would have been there by now until mid November.
Vacation will be delayed by about 3 weeks, but my son and I will be able to meet the extended family home.

Phewwww. I am Soo glad that this worked out. Otherwise, we would potentially had to wait until next May.
Just wanted to share this news if anyone is curious.
Again, thanks all for the helpful ideas on taking a toddler on the flight.