Just a couple of comments on things that caught my eye:
Originally Posted by
Fizzer
( Have you tried getting 2 people into an aircraft washroom. I have and it's not even vaguely accessible, despite the disabled sticker suggesting otherwise).
On most widebodies, the flight attendant can block off the entire row of lavatories, and then you would be able to assist your daughter without everyone gawking.
Originally Posted by
Fizzer
Thank you for your kind words. I think to be fair we were getting to the end of the time when air travel with her was feasible but I'm sad that this was her her most recent experience. She is heavier than she was when we flew more when she was younger plus I am older ( not decrepit yet but feeling that way sometimes

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I'm not sure why her weight is a factor - I know 250 pound male quads who fly. Nobody lifts them for screening and TSA somehow manages to clear them. Sometimes when TSA says, "Can you do X?" you just gotta answer "No" and let them deal with it.