Originally Posted by WillCAD

Sorry, but I'm not going to castigate the TSA over this one.

There are certain physical indicators of gender, not to mention culturally-variable indicators in clothing, hairstyles, jewelry, makeup, etc. In some folks, the physical indicators are less obvious than in others. And some folks choose different modes of dress and style.

Those folks whose appearance is atypical know that it is - they have the same perceptions as the rest of us, they are raised in the same culture as the rest of us, they know the impression that their appearance will give off in their home culture.

Everyone is entitled to whatever appearance or behavior or identity they choose. However, it is illogical to be upset if another person misperceives their gender, when they know that their appearance is at odds with the physical reality of their gender.

In plainer language, using Tristan Higgins' article as an example - she looks like a guy. She knows she looks like a guy. She is absolutely entitled to that appearance. She is silly to be upset when others are confused by her appearance. If anyone has a problem with who she chooses to be, they can go take a flyin' leap, but confusion over her appearance, prior to clarification, is completely normal and understandable.