To add to the weirdness, I did OLCI for the flight and do not show on the upgrade list at either mobile app or .com. I called the 1K line (that's how she answered!) and she can't see it either. She poked around for a while and said maybe they will see it at the airport and that to trust I am on the list.
I think I'll be sitting in 22G tomorrow when the plane takes off.