I was rather amused by the thread at the start, especially the now gone YMCA video . But think people are taking it all a bit too seriously now.

Do you ever go to lunch with a section of your colleagues? Do you ever air any criticism of others on those occasions? I realise there are shades to this, but suspect that anyone who hasn't, hasn't really lived.

I suspect that the imagined criticism on this other forum is probably worse than any reality. I also expect that there will be as many disappointed that they have not been discussed, as people concerned that they have.