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BDA shorts
Don't go in with a warlike mentality. "This thing--how much? No that's too much" doesn't work nearly as well as:
Walk around a bit, talk to the guy, ask him about his family, joke around with him, ohh by the way this looks pretty what is it?, chat for a while longer and take a look at the picture of his grandson in his wallet, can you give me a good price?, show him a picture of your grandson, ohh wow if I pay that I won't have any money left over for lunch!, make a joke about that idiot tourist nearby making a mess of things, how about this I'll pay you $x.
Rinse, wash, repeat. If you know any terms of endearment in the local language, use them ("chabibi, that just won't do"). If it's a touchy-feely culture, touch the guy on the arm a few times. Be willing to walk away as mentioned above.
Once you settle on a price give the guy a firm handshake and a smile. Not only will you get a better price (because you're showing some sensitivity to the guy, you're haggling in the way that locals in many cultures haggle, and he'll like you a lot more than the average tourist that lumbers by), but you'll also have a lot more fun.
It's supposed to be a dance, not a battle.
A couple of things:
I'm female. Will this encourage the vendor to fix me up with his shy geeky son who's addicted to video games, or hit on me himself?
Do most sellers in Turkey and elsewhere know enough English to engage in a bargaining session?
What prices should I consider firm and not subject to negotiation? I can assume restaurant menu prices are firm, right?
It's nice getting to know the locals, but I'm not sure I would have the strength to engage them in a conversation over each trinket that catches my eye.
Stuff I want from Ist:
A dozen or so evil eye thingies in different sizes
Hamam towels
A set of hotel quality bathroom towels
A silver jewelry item or two, possibly with inlaid ceramic
100% cotton Turkish clothing
A carpet bag if they're not too expensive, and/or carpet accessories like eyeglass cases
A mosaic table lantern
A cool looking Oriental genie oil lamp if I can find one
Turkish delight candy, natch
I'm not interested in any big heavy rugs or antiquities. Looking to spend about $300-$400 total.