So, based upon the comments from FT'ers, here's a few key take-aways that are NOT related to the OP's actual issues (and it probably won't matter to the OP, as she is probably a drive-by poster looking for sympathy or ideas to help support her endgame):
1) When posting on a public web community, be sure to have manageable/readable posts. Don't antagonize the readers with long winded, poorly formed paragraph structure. This will at least get people more inclined to continue reading.

2) Avoid using hyperbole to describe the situation and the people. This is a sure-fire way to get readers polarized or question the truth(iness)/veracity of what has happened.

3) Do not bring in emotional or personal bias into the situation, as this will make the readers turn it into issue(s) other than the actual problems and lead to discussions that won't directly address the issues

4) In summary, always remember KISS (you can define the abbreviations however you want):
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/KISS_principle

5) These key take-aways are useful for any kind of communication (short of trying to write some novel).