Yes, I would stay in j also. What are the flight times? We are fortunate to have the 1:35 to HKG out of yyz. This ensures our daughter is good and tired. So sometimes, we just keep her up late and then she is out like a lite. Have you thought about an iPod touch. You can rip some much longer DVDs to mp4 using some pretty simple software, pull into iTunes and get some kids headphones. This way they are longer than the Ife. Also a iPod mini should work. Small price to pay for what we call the electronic baby sitter. Also, with meals, just ask them to set aside a main for your child. Eat your meal and then have them bring out the main and you can help your child eat. Or you can be a piggy like me and eat extra.