I noticed that my miles finally posted yesterday or Wednesday of this week. Today I received the following e-mail:

cyncyn129,
The Miles you received from American National Red Cross have been credited to your AAdvantage account.

Deposit Summary
Tracking Number : AAAA-AA6-KTO
AAdvantage miles: 500
Your Name: Cyncyn129
AAdvantage Account: 7XXXX
Deposit Date: 12/13/2012
Your AAdvantage account balance has been updated to reflect this award.

Sincerely,
AAdvantage Program Team

I don't recall my SO getting a confirmation e-mail.