Perhaps you didn't get treated to your liking, fair enough, but you make a lot of assumptions, exemplified by the title of this thread, which demonstrates some rather low-effort thinking on your part.
I've had the good, bad and ugly in F and Y. But hopefully I don't often have to sit next to someone who consumes more than their fair share of bin space and then cops the attitude that the flight crew is out to get them.
And, no, she didn't know your status, no matter how much you probably wanted her to. As you displayed an obvious lack of knowledge of the basic rules of bin space etiquette, you clearly came across as an amateur!
I admire the FA for offering the free drinks - an act of class you never said you expressed any gratitude for. Seems about par, given the rest of your post.