Much resepct Emirates. They called me a couple of times today, but had to bounce the calls, as I was in meetings. So called them back, and yes they CAN change the flights, for $25 change fee, but a refund of 25,000 miles !
Fees refunded and re-taken, miles refunded and the lesser amount taken so a result all round, and little Tezzer gets to do 2 A380 suites, the 1st class lounge in Dubai and I'll be dad of the week !
All round result, thanks EK, you are the best !