I've read a few of the threads here, but they're old and as a woman, I'm wondering about any specific information I need to know. I'm off to Thailand (and Singapore) next week for business and am wondering if some of the things I've read online are really true.

So..

Is it really required to wear a skirt suit? I only ask because I was told that the first time I went to Japan, only to find everyone else wearing business casual. Not even wearing ties.

Will I be treated "fairly", or are there any gotchas as far as women in business go?

Is it acceptable for me to eat alone, either in the hotel or restaurant?

I will be going alone, and compared to my first trip to Asia, where I was a big ball of stress, I'd like to make this a lot more pleasant and relaxing!