I gave up on the 18,407 miles still missing from partner carriers, going back to 3/3 and including BD which is no longer with *A.
I did file a DOT complaint (thank you to the person who PMd me the info) but the time delay is getting too lengthy, I sent in a request for the *A flights to be credited to my M&M account, and for the BD flights to be credited to my AA account.
I will reach 1K without the missing partner flights as I have some upcoming UA flights

, and would most likely reach AA EXP without them, and my M&M status runs for two years, so it doesn't hurt to credit them to different accounts.
But I would be angry if after almost six months my miles had not posted to my MP account and if I really needed those miles for travel, status, etc.