Originally Posted by
cblaisd
A window seat at Kinkaids watching planes landing over the lights of the bayshore, near and far, is pretty dramatic for me

Me, too. I'd even bring my scanner along. And get a bay view room at the Marriott. The southeast facing rooms at the Grand Sierra Hotel in Reno is one of the best places for plane watching I have ever found. It's why I have stayed there - rather than downtown - when visiting Reno.
But I am still guessing that for the OP and family, that is not their highest priority. Just MHO.