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Can't be arsed getting into useless, long-winded discussion about this, but suffice to say some may be fine with your method, but accept that there are also going to many others that just think it's weird, socially awkward and potentially very embarrassing.
Edit - I see that you're based in Australia. Could account for something - different places, different customs etc. I can assure you that while what you describe undoubtedly happens here and there, it is not the norm in the US, for example.
Fair enough, and both you and BB are entitled to your opinion, as am I and everyone else on this site, but it's not
my method. It's just one I was taught, in the US by the way. Although I'm based in Oz at the moment, I'm a dual citizen.
Others may find it awkward and even vulgar but I've been told that it's one that is taught in many "finishing school" type places (can't confirm or deny this, though) and is designed to be quite the opposite. In many situations overtly handing someone cash is concidered both awkward and improper. Discretion is the key in those situations.
No offence to BB, but this is nothing at all like putting money in someones shirt pocket, which is both extrememly overt and demeaning. This method is subtle and discreet. Not intended for, say, a porter but more for the Concierge, Maitre D and so on.
I'd be interested in hearing from others whether they have used this method or not, and their thoughts on it.
Edit: Here's a link to an interesting thread, both pro and con, palming gratuities:
http://ask.metafilter.com/88100/Here-ya-go-buddy