Oh I meant to say that on the connecting flight OAK to SEA during pre-boarding, a guy walks on what appears to be his wife. She sits in row 9 while he proceeds back to row 12 (exit row) where the FA confronted him and said he could not sit there as a pre-board passenger needing assistance. He needed to find another seat to which he walks back another few rows still sitting away from his traveling companion which I do think was his wife. I was surprised by both actions his and the FA's.