Valextra, no one (to my knowledge) is impugning your credibility or invalidating your experience.
At the same time, you profess to take the "high road" while really slamming a property with your last update. You posted somewhat vague details, and doesn't that then perform an even greater disservice to them/it?
As it stands, I can try to read between your lines; however, I might not be able to do so with perfect clarity, and thus run the risk of assuming issues that might not exist, or missing entirely grave issues that should be of great concern.
As an aside -- I've never in my travels been asked to wire money to a hotel. Maybe I've lucked out, but why would one ever be asked, much less do, this?