Sounds ghastly! Few things make me as grumpy as the incessant boom-boom of a nearby party when I am trying to sleep.
And there are many things staff could have done - starting with a more sympathetic attitude! Why should the guests have to propose the solution? Aman more than anyone should understand that.
Welcome to FT, valextraofstyle! As first time poster the added detail was very helpful in allowing us to understand your perspective.