I'll toss my two cents in...
I can't fathom going on a gay cruise. I can't fathom going on a cruise, period. Though, I do have to agree that the blame goes all around.
Why is ATLANTIS patronizing homophobic ports? While having sex in the open might be a thrill, wait till the ship is at sea.
I recognize that misbehavior is not to the excess that it is rumored (or wished) to be, but feh, give me a rental car, two or three friends, and hundreds of miles of scenic roadway to take at our own pace....