Originally Posted by
HIDDY
I find it amazing that you seem to think that all gay people have to out themselves.

With all due respect, there speaks a heterosexual.
Gay men and Lesbians DO have to 'out' themselves, because the unwritten assumption is that people are straight.
The reason some choose not to is because of prejudice. Why else would they stay closeted unless they feel they would be judged unfairly for their sexual orientation ?
BAH