Originally Posted by FlyingHigh20

Within reason. The elderly should not be hauling on a bunch of crap they cant carry. Other than a small carry-on bag or purse, they shouldnt be lugging around a 30lb bag. Likewise, if I sprained my wrist or broke my arm....I'm not dragging around a bag that I'll have to lift and put into the overhead compartment. If it doesnt fit underneath the seat, I'll take personal responsibility for my own situation and check the darn thing in.

A lot of times, people dont check things in to save $$$. So at this point, those who aren't able to handle all their items they bring on the plane are expecting others to help them in order for them to save money - which goes beyond being disrespectful and just downright selfish.