Originally Posted by
Bebedeer
Yes, it is a romantic thing. DH and I have a bad feeling about the guy and now she is suspicious because when he is gone for 2.5 weeks he only texts and emails, never calls. I thought that was odd because when my husband and I travel separately and internationally we call home or wherever the other person is. We don't always call every single day but there is never a total radio silence during trips.
While having nothing to do with verifying whether the guy is a pilot or not, I don't call home very often when I'm on the road and my wife isn't. Email and chats online, but rarely voice. Mostly because of time zones and costs, but also because our relationship works well that way. Assuming that your model must apply to others is a good way to lose friends, not support them. :-: