I could not find myself. Maybe I did something wrong, but I apparently do not exist, so I guess I have never flown.

Shame.
All those hours spent behind the stick and I am not an "Airman"
PS, IMO, some hide their identity online with forums such as this by bending the truth slightly to disguise whom they really are.
Perhaps your guy did this, with no harm meant.
Either way, It's interesting I could not find myself in the data base.