Hmm......
I find this website a bit confusing sometimes.
I had a look at the boards for the US airlines, and it seems quite normal/ok to not really like the airline.
OTOH, on the BA board you get castigated..... I would put it down to patriotism, but we are not exactly patriotic in this country, compared to the US.
Now, I think it's generally accepted that if you want to get 'waited on' you need to fly an Asian airline.
That said, the OP stated that he flew BA having a generally negative perception of them, evidently based on past experience. Apparently they didn't get 'Asian' enough for him, as they did nothing to dispel that experience, which is evidently based on lack of servility.
I don't really see that this is unreasonable? "If you don't like 'the BA way', you can f*** right off?"
ho hum.......