FAM
The Jason Stratham-looking FAM was my roommate in college. On a flight out of Charlotte last month he sat down next to me in FC. We had a nice chat about the job. He flies 4-5 times per week. In the grand scheme of things - I know it can be frustrating when you think the upgrade is within sight - but the truth is, they fly enough to have earned it themselves.
Even as a CP with 132,000 miles this past year, he flies a ton more than I do. And if he's there to help . . . take the big seat. I'll deal with coach. I didn't pay for the upgrade anyway.