In Phuket, I find it better to be in a secluded location.
Trisara and Amanpuri are fantastic, even the entry level accommodation.
You might also consider:
The Boathouse (Same owners as Trisara, and very promising)
The Chedi
The Royal Phuket Yacht Club
Anantara
The Naka Island (formerly Six Senses, now Starwood Luxury Collection)